Hi Guys,
Well I realised there was some problem with the scribbles already posted. In that it does not have a ‘working’ URL of its own and that you could not comment on them. I believe I have fixed those issues. For anyone who wants to comment anything the previous scribbles, can do so in this one. Sorry for the trouble !!
If you encounter more problems you can mail me !!
I have long argued (particularly with one person), that love is in the mind. It is your mind that controls whether you fall in love or not. It is from the will of it. Only factors that will help you is time and communication. Although I have never been able to give concrete explanations (well I fail to do for almost anything). I do have come across with something interesting.
There is something called Crystallization of Love. This was coined by Stendhal (Marie-Henri Beyle) the great french. writer.
“Thus, according to Stendhal, the moment one begins to take interest in a person, one no longer sees him or her as they really are, but as it suits one to see them”
Well you will argue, that there is nothing new in this. I do agree, there is nothing. But, as far as I believe, all you need to do is take interest, and give some space to that person in your thoughts. If you do that, and for sometime, you are bound to fall in love. Whereas, if you continuously question the persons credentials and do fault finding, you will realize that the person is not the one for you. It all depends on which direction you take your mind to, either you admire the qualities or you nag the flaws.
I had a friend named Costa in school. Well he was not close, but was more of an acquaintance. I remember on his Birthday, the talk ventured on to how he started his day. And it was something like, “You wake up, and think, how you have spent your last 15 years of life…days when you were happy when you were sad…what days count in your life and stuff”
I was left dumbfounded…simply because I had never ventured into that thought anytime before…and I was wondering he is only 15 and I see a more mature sight of him, which is usually hidden in our normal day to day interaction.Yet here, college or work or anywhere, I rarely encounter people who venture out into these thoughts…analysing the way life has been and the way it could or will be.
I don’t know why, but the thought just came down in my head…and thought to put it up here. Its not that it has come after so many years…but its one of those that lingers quite often.
For all those who have been reading the crap I have been writting, I am sure at some point of time they would have been troubled by the incoherency in the chain of thoughts that have been projected here. When you encounter these 3 Dots (…) and you say to urself “What the Heck!!”. I don’t blame you, that has been a problem with me…and I guess is bound to stay.
It does not worry me much, I don’t know why, may be because, more often than not, I have been misunderstood, so it doesn’t matter, anymore if again I have been.
I tend to rely a lot on 3 dots. I guess I just lazy out, and save the trouble to myself on explaining something and inplace of that I just use the 3dots. It wonders me sometimes, what I derive from disguising somethings and talking in riddles at times, riddles, which at best can be understood by me only. Not that I have any doubt on you who are reading but because a lot of things that are part of the correlation process have been left out. Things that just wonder in my mind and are not open. Is it a defensive mechanism ?? I think or wonder !!
Then I think why in the first place I come here. Is it the want to reach out someone, in general or someone more specific, that by chance or on purpose someone might read it. I started this to vent out my thoughts, but at times I have used it as a mouthpiece.
The crap I write is not to influence anyone, not to condemn anyone not humiliate anyone. Its just a way to tell what I feel on certain aspects. This is the place where I have found my comfort zone.
Hello World !! I guess this is the first program for anyone in any language. For me, its the first blog on my own, personal website. Well this has been in my mind, for over an year. Well all my projects are in a gestation period of some sorts. This one was which matured pretty fast. The main reason, is that I was not able to access blogger/blogspot from office and my proxies were not working there. And then what do you do ? You make your own domain and space, and hope that no company blocks it. 
I have tried to keep the look and feel almost the same. And I looking for some ways to shift the old stuff here. Lets see when that happens. In the meantime… have fun !!
So Here it is !!!
Merry Christmas !!!
( P.S. : The older posts are available here or the link ‘…scribbles…[1.0]‘ on the top right corner of this page)
