For those who live in the past !! – A Comment !!!
From what I have seen in life… many people come in our lives, there are some with whom we get attached to, but sometimes, with some people, a special bond is formed which may be more intense than any other relation…
Yes, one does ask the question “Jaane tu meri kya hai, Jaane mai tera kya tha” (Translation in English: “Who were you to me, Who am I to you”) But there comes a time when one realizes that there was no relation and maybe it was never meant to be… there was and is an intense bond that was formed maybe because of the same mental and emotional level…
The question is – Is it really essential to give a name to such a relation??? The bond cannot be defined as just friendship or any other relation maybe because it was stronger and much more intense… But why does one feel a need to define it??? Can it be defined by a name at all???
So what happens if you never see the person again??? We will have to deal with a fact that it was never meant to be… Ofcourse we miss them terribly… but what do you do in that case???
One has to choose from the many available options…
* Try not to see them again and avoid talking about them!
* Sulk and whine that life is not fair, you really need that person but destiny is against you!
* Create problems in their life… with the intention that “If I am not happy, nobody can be!!!” (Gosh… that is a sadist’s point of view)
* Keep in touch, as friends and old acquaintances but nothing more. Help them out if they need it but never expect anything back in return!!! (Oops… that is an angel’s point of view)
* Always cherish those special memories… but move on in life!
Well, the choice is open!!!
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