Comments on: The Right to Live & Life!! http://www.kidunltd.com/scribbles/2009/06/18/the-right-to-live-life/ ...the random thoughts...that so fall in a pattern ... known as me..!! Wed, 01 Feb 2012 11:45:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Tanu http://www.kidunltd.com/scribbles/2009/06/18/the-right-to-live-life/comment-page-1/#comment-1205 Tanu Thu, 25 Jun 2009 06:03:34 +0000 http://www.kidunltd.com/scribbles/?p=170#comment-1205 I agree with you ..sometimes people really try to impose their mindset to others just to prove that what they are doing is correct and set it as a standard .. who decided this- what is right and what is wrong? Certainly we are free to follow what we want to believe but still in practical life sometimes we are bounded by some factors which we really cant ignore and cant raise our voice too ..just to tell them that this is what we feel -its not reasonable and I will not follow it. But many times we have to do that forcefully because we have a fear that it can cost us a lot in a relationship-personal / professional. So I feel it depends on the intensity of compromise asked for .If it is manageable then we don't mind to follow it but if it is not reasonable and really affecting us then surely need to talk. I agree with you ..sometimes people really try to impose their mindset to others just to prove that what they are doing is correct and set it as a standard .. who decided this- what is right and what is wrong?
Certainly we are free to follow what we want to believe but still in practical life sometimes we are bounded by some factors which we really cant ignore and cant raise our voice too ..just to tell them that this is what we feel -its not reasonable and I will not follow it.
But many times we have to do that forcefully because we have a fear that it can cost us a lot in a relationship-personal / professional.
So I feel it depends on the intensity of compromise asked for .If it is manageable then we don’t mind to follow it but if it is not reasonable and really affecting us then surely need to talk.

]]> By: Magic http://www.kidunltd.com/scribbles/2009/06/18/the-right-to-live-life/comment-page-1/#comment-1198 Magic Thu, 18 Jun 2009 04:51:06 +0000 http://www.kidunltd.com/scribbles/?p=170#comment-1198 For you what may be right I may not agree with them & vice-versa… people do try and force their mindset on you ( that’s the way our society is) but it is up to the person if you want to be influenced with it or not- listen to everyone present your own views on the right and wrong. I think we can deicide what is that we want to accept and what not and we do… Personally tell me one such instance where your life was influenced with any such belief or it was forced upon you (hard to come up with one, I am sure)… These things do exist and sometimes no matter how educated/ ‘advanced’ we may be, it expected of us to just ‘accept certain things’- Do I? Honestly, yeah at times. Always- Never! I know how to prove my point and reason it out and sometimes I don’t even feel the need to do that… Btw societal outcaste does exist even today and mind you it is not restricted to rural parts and yeah it happened to those who deviated and tried to break away from the societal moulds… At least, they attempted it for others to follow it too or try and break away from some other set of unwritten rules For you what may be right I may not agree with them & vice-versa… people do try and force their mindset on you ( that’s the way our society is) but it is up to the person if you want to be influenced with it or not- listen to everyone present your own views on the right and wrong. I think we can deicide what is that we want to accept and what not and we do… Personally tell me one such instance where your life was influenced with any such belief or it was forced upon you (hard to come up with one, I am sure)…

These things do exist and sometimes no matter how educated/ ‘advanced’ we may be, it expected of us to just ‘accept certain things’- Do I? Honestly, yeah at times. Always- Never! I know how to prove my point and reason it out and sometimes I don’t even feel the need to do that…

Btw societal outcaste does exist even today and mind you it is not restricted to rural parts and yeah it happened to those who deviated and tried to break away from the societal moulds… At least, they attempted it for others to follow it too or try and break away from some other set of unwritten rules

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